Maybe my whole problem is that it’s time for me to settle down and be a nice old lady, and I’ve been resisting that.

Maybe I should have stayed with my refuser and gone along with his sexless-sick-old-man agenda. Maybe the way my life is now, and the way I feel right now, is my punishment for not accepting my fate.


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Born, went to school, went to work, will die someday. Fluent in English, sarcasm, and profanity. Open-minded skeptic, INTP in the Myers-Briggs, 5-Investigator (or Observer) in the Enneagram, Sagittarius in astrology, Pitta/Kapha in the Ayurvedic system. Likes: Music, books, reading, paid time off from work. Dislikes: Authoritarians, micromanagement, illogic, and asparagus.

One thought on “Punishment?”

  1. No!
    Do not settle!
    You have a better job now.
    You are in a better locale.
    You have the potential for a fulfilling sex life.
    What you do not have is the stress of a roommate who ignored your emotional and physical needs.
    Any day may seem like a big mistake but you must look at the big picture, where you were versus where you are.
    Big hugs to you.


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